As a kid, periodically we would take long journey's to Grandma and Grandpa's house. That trip from Oregon and Montana was 1200 miles or so... pretty long trips that we often made with few stops. ( A pick up camper is a wonderful thing.)
The trip was fun, but the destination was better... Our grandparents had a cool place next a big viaduct, which was a natural place for us to play and run.( although we were not supposed to.) It was a small town, so we could go places that were pretty cool.
Our church has been on a journey for 10 years... toward relocation. I remember the first days of this journey, when we thought about what the needs of the church would be 10, 20, or 30 plus years down the road. Through the faith and foresight of church leaders we made the move.
Today we moved into our new worship center on North Garnett. All I can say is WOW!
There were lots of people... lots and lots of people. People I had never seen before... people I had not seen in a long time... and lots of people who have been with us every step of the way. There were people from out of town... The city manager of Owasso came... as did some of the guys who have been working on the building...And alot of new people.
We showed a clip from Hoosiers (stole that idea from a church in Joplin who opened a couple weeks ago)...I loved it because it gave us the opportunity to say that even though the building is big,new and wonderful... and even though it will bring lots of changes, some things will never change... We will worship, we will preach,and we will celebrate Jesus! That will never change.
I thankful for the journey. I love the fact that the journey continues. The destination was never North Garnett... The destination is Heaven and we want to take anyone we can with us. Today 3 people were baptized, 5 others joined the church.
Problems? Some.... Some technical, but nothing major. Parking looks to be the biggest issue... We need lots more! What a great problem we have.
Easter is two weeks away. Don't know that we are ready...but we will do our best...and preach Christ.
Some asked if I was tired... The answer is "yes." But it it good tired. And I know of so many others who have worked alot harder on this than I have...So many have been so devoted..
It is great to be a part of something that people say, "You can't do it." ( We didn't, God did.) It is great to be a part of something that stretches you, takes faith and lots of trust. It is great to be part of something that goes far beyond brick and mortar... Life transformation is the real work of God... and we are seeing it.
What fun!
Sunday, March 09, 2008
Monday, March 03, 2008
A New Thing....
Ah..... the adventure continues. This past Sunday ( 3.2) we gathered together for the last time at 86th Street for Sunday Morning worship. I had been fretting about how to make this service meaningful.
I landed on a couple things that I think were very cool. One, we allowed members to share memories of how God has worked in this place over the past 28 years. There were lots of stories, some laughs and a few tears. We recalled all the people that were baptized, babies that were dedicated, High School kids that stood on the stage on graduate Sunday, missions trips, VBS programs, Camps, and so much more.
I was most pleased about the participation. We could have taken an hour easy. Young and old shared. It was just right.
I talked about Exodus 12 and how God is in the timing of everything. Exoudus 12 says that Israel was in Egypt for 430 years "to the day." I love that... God had a plan and to the very day, he executed his plan in his timing.
Think about that move.... 600,000 men, plus women and children. That is a real challenge that makes moving 1500 people just down the road look like a picnic.
I love the last words of Exodus 12 ( vs. 51) "And on that very day, the Lord brought the Israelites out of Egypt by their divisions."
God opens doors and then leads His people.
Its been a long journey for us as a church. But I can honestly say that FCC is stronger for it. Our focus is on Christ, our mission is clear , and our future is bright. I am sure there are bumpy roads ahead, but that is where you learn to depend on God, learn to focus your worship and faith on God, not man, and learn that God does not dwell in buildings, but dwells in the hearts of men. For that I am thankful.
First Service is next Sunday... What do I preach? Well I really have focused on Isaiah 43:19 where he writes "Behold, I do a new thing among you..." So this Sunday is about a new worship...from Psalm 40.
It should be fun... More about it later.
I landed on a couple things that I think were very cool. One, we allowed members to share memories of how God has worked in this place over the past 28 years. There were lots of stories, some laughs and a few tears. We recalled all the people that were baptized, babies that were dedicated, High School kids that stood on the stage on graduate Sunday, missions trips, VBS programs, Camps, and so much more.
I was most pleased about the participation. We could have taken an hour easy. Young and old shared. It was just right.
I talked about Exodus 12 and how God is in the timing of everything. Exoudus 12 says that Israel was in Egypt for 430 years "to the day." I love that... God had a plan and to the very day, he executed his plan in his timing.
Think about that move.... 600,000 men, plus women and children. That is a real challenge that makes moving 1500 people just down the road look like a picnic.
I love the last words of Exodus 12 ( vs. 51) "And on that very day, the Lord brought the Israelites out of Egypt by their divisions."
God opens doors and then leads His people.
Its been a long journey for us as a church. But I can honestly say that FCC is stronger for it. Our focus is on Christ, our mission is clear , and our future is bright. I am sure there are bumpy roads ahead, but that is where you learn to depend on God, learn to focus your worship and faith on God, not man, and learn that God does not dwell in buildings, but dwells in the hearts of men. For that I am thankful.
First Service is next Sunday... What do I preach? Well I really have focused on Isaiah 43:19 where he writes "Behold, I do a new thing among you..." So this Sunday is about a new worship...from Psalm 40.
It should be fun... More about it later.
Thursday, February 14, 2008
Pam
Valentines' Day....hmnnnnn.... Last night after church I made the trek to Walmart to pick out a card and a little gift for my love. Some observations....
1. Walmart was packed....
2. I thought by going the night before that I would beat the crowd.....na....
3. Women in line seemed more annoyed with all the people than the men did. Maybe that is because men are more used to experiencing crowds when they shop for Valentine's day. One woman said to me, "You would think it was Christmas." Who knows, maybe some people think it is.
4. Lots of flowers were being purchased. Of course, mostly by men.
5. I saw a bunch of people from church that was there. One lady gave me credit for not waiting until the 14th. She was impressed.
6. While shopping is not my favorite thing... Pam is my favorite person. We met on Feb. 22nd, 1980 at a birthday party at college. Neither of us were looking for our future spouse at the time. I had lots of school to finish, and she was almost done and on her way to Jamaica to work with a missionary. I was unsettled in a lot of ways...she was pretty secure in who she was and what her future held. But that night things really did change. I went to back to my room and told my roommate "I met someone tonight." I was in Luuuuuuuvvvvvvvvv. We spent alot of time together over the next six weeks and they say,"the rest is history..."It was a whirlwind time of campus walking, talking, a date or two to McDonalds, kicking leaves, and a trip to her home in Nebraska. ( all in the first six weeks). I asked her to marry me then. ( Kids... its too quick, but when you know, you know.) We were married in April of 1981.
Over the years we have had lots of great experiences. We have had a few that were not so great. But who in this world could have filled the place of Pam in my life? I don't know if there is only one person for us in life, but I do know that Pam was and is the perfect person in my life.
Let me tell you just a bit about her...
She loves God... from the very beginning there was no "put on" when it came to her relationship with God. She showed me what it meant to love God in real and tangible ways. She also has shown me what it means to love God through disappointment and sorrow, fear and uncertainty. 27 years later, through thick and thin, she still loves God. She is real with her relationship with God. And He so real to her.
She loves me... I am not an easy person to live with. I have been prone to be obsessed about my work, sports and other pursuits. But she has always accepted me for who I am . She expects me to figure things out, and when I don't, she does not beat me up... she often patiently waits for me to learn the lesson and kind of says, "I could have saved you some of that lesson learning." ( its the kind look that I get sometimes.)
She is a great friend. She listens to me vent, unload and unpack things from my day. She laughs at my really bad jokes, always says something good about my sermons ( even when there was not much to say), makes an occasional suggestion and defends me wherever she can. She has sat through countless basketball games, lets me go to any game I want... and knows more about basketball than most serious students of the game. She loves the Huskers. And she loves the Ducks almost as much.
She is a superior mother. I could not imagine that our four children could have ever found a mother that loves them more. She is there for them. She listens to them. She is their best friend. She counsels them. She cries with them. Her phone rings all the time, and I know who it is. It is one of the kids....wanting to ask a question, share a moment, or just say "hi." Sometimes I get grumpy about all the attention they get from her, but then I remember that this is one thing that I love the most about her. Her kids love to come home. And when they do,it is fun. Her kids ( and her husband) eat dinner together and sit at the table, sometimes for hours, just talking and laughing. Our daughters husbands are comfortable here. ( So is the boyfriend). I can assure that that has more to do with her than me. People talk about how great our kids are. Pam is the first to say, "It is God..." And it is ... but it is also a mother like Pam. It is no real surprise to me. She has a mother who is just like her...
She will be a tremendous grandmother. Grace has no idea yet, but Pam will be the best. ( no offense to other grandmothers). One thing is for sure, just as four kids and a husband have been prayed for over the years, Grace will have Pam in her corner, asking God to protect her, bless her and to help her grow to Love Jesus. (She already does).
As we grow older, I would not want to spend one moment of my life without Pam. Wedding Vows say, "till death do you part." That's us. We are lifers....and because of that, the future is bright for us. No matter what comes at us, what places God takes us, we are in it together.
Together... thats what valentines is all about. Together.
I could go on... but you need to go... more about her another day.
1. Walmart was packed....
2. I thought by going the night before that I would beat the crowd.....na....
3. Women in line seemed more annoyed with all the people than the men did. Maybe that is because men are more used to experiencing crowds when they shop for Valentine's day. One woman said to me, "You would think it was Christmas." Who knows, maybe some people think it is.
4. Lots of flowers were being purchased. Of course, mostly by men.
5. I saw a bunch of people from church that was there. One lady gave me credit for not waiting until the 14th. She was impressed.
6. While shopping is not my favorite thing... Pam is my favorite person. We met on Feb. 22nd, 1980 at a birthday party at college. Neither of us were looking for our future spouse at the time. I had lots of school to finish, and she was almost done and on her way to Jamaica to work with a missionary. I was unsettled in a lot of ways...she was pretty secure in who she was and what her future held. But that night things really did change. I went to back to my room and told my roommate "I met someone tonight." I was in Luuuuuuuvvvvvvvvv. We spent alot of time together over the next six weeks and they say,"the rest is history..."It was a whirlwind time of campus walking, talking, a date or two to McDonalds, kicking leaves, and a trip to her home in Nebraska. ( all in the first six weeks). I asked her to marry me then. ( Kids... its too quick, but when you know, you know.) We were married in April of 1981.
Over the years we have had lots of great experiences. We have had a few that were not so great. But who in this world could have filled the place of Pam in my life? I don't know if there is only one person for us in life, but I do know that Pam was and is the perfect person in my life.
Let me tell you just a bit about her...
She loves God... from the very beginning there was no "put on" when it came to her relationship with God. She showed me what it meant to love God in real and tangible ways. She also has shown me what it means to love God through disappointment and sorrow, fear and uncertainty. 27 years later, through thick and thin, she still loves God. She is real with her relationship with God. And He so real to her.
She loves me... I am not an easy person to live with. I have been prone to be obsessed about my work, sports and other pursuits. But she has always accepted me for who I am . She expects me to figure things out, and when I don't, she does not beat me up... she often patiently waits for me to learn the lesson and kind of says, "I could have saved you some of that lesson learning." ( its the kind look that I get sometimes.)
She is a great friend. She listens to me vent, unload and unpack things from my day. She laughs at my really bad jokes, always says something good about my sermons ( even when there was not much to say), makes an occasional suggestion and defends me wherever she can. She has sat through countless basketball games, lets me go to any game I want... and knows more about basketball than most serious students of the game. She loves the Huskers. And she loves the Ducks almost as much.
She is a superior mother. I could not imagine that our four children could have ever found a mother that loves them more. She is there for them. She listens to them. She is their best friend. She counsels them. She cries with them. Her phone rings all the time, and I know who it is. It is one of the kids....wanting to ask a question, share a moment, or just say "hi." Sometimes I get grumpy about all the attention they get from her, but then I remember that this is one thing that I love the most about her. Her kids love to come home. And when they do,it is fun. Her kids ( and her husband) eat dinner together and sit at the table, sometimes for hours, just talking and laughing. Our daughters husbands are comfortable here. ( So is the boyfriend). I can assure that that has more to do with her than me. People talk about how great our kids are. Pam is the first to say, "It is God..." And it is ... but it is also a mother like Pam. It is no real surprise to me. She has a mother who is just like her...
She will be a tremendous grandmother. Grace has no idea yet, but Pam will be the best. ( no offense to other grandmothers). One thing is for sure, just as four kids and a husband have been prayed for over the years, Grace will have Pam in her corner, asking God to protect her, bless her and to help her grow to Love Jesus. (She already does).
As we grow older, I would not want to spend one moment of my life without Pam. Wedding Vows say, "till death do you part." That's us. We are lifers....and because of that, the future is bright for us. No matter what comes at us, what places God takes us, we are in it together.
Together... thats what valentines is all about. Together.
I could go on... but you need to go... more about her another day.
Friday, February 08, 2008
Eight Questions.....
It's Friday night. Pam went with some church friends to a Casting Crowns Concert. It s a fun thing for her to do.
I was planning to head to a basketball game, but a bad cold has sidelined me. Rest is important.
So its times for some questions.....
1. The congress passed the economic atimulus package today. Now, a 1200 check sounds good to me... but with a huge deficit in this country, how does this 170 billion dollars get paid for?
2. A football player from Nevada called a press conference and announced that he was "choosing" the California Bears. The problem was the California Bears did not ask him to choose them. Nobody did... not Oregon, not Washington, not Oklahoma State, not California. What was he thinking?
3. I have four great kids and a wonderful wife. How did I get so blessed?
4. John McCain is the "presumptive" Republican candidate. Who is the "presumptive" vice presidental republican candidate?
5. What is going to happen to my nice quiet neighborhood when a apartment complex of 250 units and a Kum and Go invade later this spring? ( Both within 1000 yards of my house. Guess thats progress.)
6. If the price of a barrel of oil drops from 100/barrel to 87/barrell, why doesn;t the price of gas drop 13% in a week. ( I know there is an explanation, but it does not make sense.)
7. Could it be that after all the talk about the longest political campaign ever, that on Feb. 8th we have our two tickets? Obama/Clinton or Clinton/Obama verses McCain/Huckabee? If it turns out that way I will suggest that in 2012 we not spend 200 million dollars just to weed out the long list of "hopefuls"
8. Did we ever think that the strongest college basketball program in the state of Oklahoma would be ORU? Wow....
More questions later...
I was planning to head to a basketball game, but a bad cold has sidelined me. Rest is important.
So its times for some questions.....
1. The congress passed the economic atimulus package today. Now, a 1200 check sounds good to me... but with a huge deficit in this country, how does this 170 billion dollars get paid for?
2. A football player from Nevada called a press conference and announced that he was "choosing" the California Bears. The problem was the California Bears did not ask him to choose them. Nobody did... not Oregon, not Washington, not Oklahoma State, not California. What was he thinking?
3. I have four great kids and a wonderful wife. How did I get so blessed?
4. John McCain is the "presumptive" Republican candidate. Who is the "presumptive" vice presidental republican candidate?
5. What is going to happen to my nice quiet neighborhood when a apartment complex of 250 units and a Kum and Go invade later this spring? ( Both within 1000 yards of my house. Guess thats progress.)
6. If the price of a barrel of oil drops from 100/barrel to 87/barrell, why doesn;t the price of gas drop 13% in a week. ( I know there is an explanation, but it does not make sense.)
7. Could it be that after all the talk about the longest political campaign ever, that on Feb. 8th we have our two tickets? Obama/Clinton or Clinton/Obama verses McCain/Huckabee? If it turns out that way I will suggest that in 2012 we not spend 200 million dollars just to weed out the long list of "hopefuls"
8. Did we ever think that the strongest college basketball program in the state of Oklahoma would be ORU? Wow....
More questions later...
Sunday, February 03, 2008
Super Bowl 42
I wanted the Patriots to win. I just thought 19-0 was too much to pass up.
But the Giants won. My Dad called me before the game to tell me that he was picking the Giants. He wins....
Great game... some great plays by the Giants made the difference.
A few observations
1. When you start 0-2 your season is not over. Just ask the Giants
2. When you start 0-2 the quarterback gets all the blame. But come back and win the
Super Bowl, and the QB gets alot of the praise.
3. Owasso's own R.W. McQuarters must be pretty happy. That moves him into elite
company with others such as Garth Brooks as Owasso residents who have made it
big.
4. It is a long off season for the loser of the Super Bowl, even when you win 18
out of 19 games. When you win 18, you still want to win the last one more.
5. Coach Bill of the Patriots is a very mysterious dude.
6. Entertainment???? Tom Petty was pretty good at half time. Jordan Sparks did one
of the best ever at the National Anthem. I did not understand Alicia Keyes, so
that did nothing for me... and Paul A ( and her dance) was regretable, forgetable and any other "able" you could think of. She needs to stick to judging... Commercials... nothing really jumped out... I wonder if any of them thought they were worth the money?
Well, enough of all that... Super Bowl 42 is history. Now, lets get to the next big day in Oklahoma- Signing Day for college... That is Wednesday
But the Giants won. My Dad called me before the game to tell me that he was picking the Giants. He wins....
Great game... some great plays by the Giants made the difference.
A few observations
1. When you start 0-2 your season is not over. Just ask the Giants
2. When you start 0-2 the quarterback gets all the blame. But come back and win the
Super Bowl, and the QB gets alot of the praise.
3. Owasso's own R.W. McQuarters must be pretty happy. That moves him into elite
company with others such as Garth Brooks as Owasso residents who have made it
big.
4. It is a long off season for the loser of the Super Bowl, even when you win 18
out of 19 games. When you win 18, you still want to win the last one more.
5. Coach Bill of the Patriots is a very mysterious dude.
6. Entertainment???? Tom Petty was pretty good at half time. Jordan Sparks did one
of the best ever at the National Anthem. I did not understand Alicia Keyes, so
that did nothing for me... and Paul A ( and her dance) was regretable, forgetable and any other "able" you could think of. She needs to stick to judging... Commercials... nothing really jumped out... I wonder if any of them thought they were worth the money?
Well, enough of all that... Super Bowl 42 is history. Now, lets get to the next big day in Oklahoma- Signing Day for college... That is Wednesday
Monday, January 28, 2008
Catching up in 2008
Its been a month since I last posted. Life has been pretty hectic...
The big news is that Elizabeth's baby is a girl. Grace Capri will be her name. We never knew what our children were before they were born, but in this day and age with all the technology, it seems to be the thing. I told Lizzie that even with that technology a set of parents can be surprised. She seems pretty confident.
Yesterday at church, as part of Sanctity of Life Sunday, I put a picture of the sonogram on the screen. The reaction of the congregation was predictably positive. They are excited for Lizzie and for Pam and I as well. We are excited for them.. Nathaniel is in the middle of basketball season which means games ( Junior High and High School)5-6 nights a week! So they are both busy.
Another development.... Joel got a job. He is working for an internet software company called VIDOOP. (Vidoop.com) He is part of the Buisness Development team, researching markets and contributing any way he can. We are are happy for him. It is a job that he waited for, hoping for the last 6 months to get on. And he did. He is apartment shopping and will be moving into Tulsa pretty soon. We are thankful that he is working in Tulsa, although his goal is to be relocated to New York City as soon as possible! Good for him!( If he gets there, we will have a place to stay).
Lydia and James are great. Lydia has had opportunities to go to work with the school districts in the Joliet area... details are being worked out, but she will be great as an assistant in the classroom. She also loves being a minister's wife. James is avery talented leader and even better, he cares for and loves Lydia so much.
Abigail went back to school (Ozark Christian College). She had a very successful first semester... and is now working toward ministry opportunities for this summer. In addtion she got a job at Payless shoes, which fits her schedule well, and will help her prepare financially for the coming three years of college. She also has a boyfriend. Tyler is a great young man from Stilwater Ok. Abigial and him have known each other for several years and decided late this fall to "take it to a new level." They seem really good together. He is also a student at OCC.
So we are close to being empty-nesters. I can not think of anyone that I would like to share this latter part of my life with than Pam. We believe it will be alot of fun... Best of all, we are beginning to see new ways that God wants to work through us. Together!
The new year started off strong for the church. We have had great attendance. In addition we have had a bunch of baptisms... Our staff is praying for 100 this year. The building is coming along and withing 45 days of completion ( phase I). I knew this would be big...but I really had no idea. I am not sure that anyone could have prepared me for the amount of leadership, attention to detail, delegation and stress (yes... I said stress) that this has been. I have managed pretty well, but that is in large part due to a tremendous staff, great leaders and a super Building team. In addition to all that, I have seen God provide in multiple ways, from many different directions. The worship center is close to completion, as is the Early Childhood center. Children's areas are not far away... and believe it or not, Phase II is starting in the next couple weeks.
Health wise, I have ups and downs. I go back to the Dr. in March, which will be almost two years since the first stroke. I am not back to 100 %, but Pam reminds me that the Dr. said "Three years." Fatigue still slaps me down and when it does, my speech becomes a little garbled, and words don't seem to flow very well. One Sunday this last month, it was particularly bad... I had warnings... The Saturday before I was really tired. So when that happens, I try to stop what I am doing and just chill! ( To use Pam's word)
Overall, I am incredibly blessed. And grateful that God has chosen to allow me to live with whom I live with, serve the church I serve with and get to enjoy it all.
I can't ask for alot more than that.
The big news is that Elizabeth's baby is a girl. Grace Capri will be her name. We never knew what our children were before they were born, but in this day and age with all the technology, it seems to be the thing. I told Lizzie that even with that technology a set of parents can be surprised. She seems pretty confident.
Yesterday at church, as part of Sanctity of Life Sunday, I put a picture of the sonogram on the screen. The reaction of the congregation was predictably positive. They are excited for Lizzie and for Pam and I as well. We are excited for them.. Nathaniel is in the middle of basketball season which means games ( Junior High and High School)5-6 nights a week! So they are both busy.
Another development.... Joel got a job. He is working for an internet software company called VIDOOP. (Vidoop.com) He is part of the Buisness Development team, researching markets and contributing any way he can. We are are happy for him. It is a job that he waited for, hoping for the last 6 months to get on. And he did. He is apartment shopping and will be moving into Tulsa pretty soon. We are thankful that he is working in Tulsa, although his goal is to be relocated to New York City as soon as possible! Good for him!( If he gets there, we will have a place to stay).
Lydia and James are great. Lydia has had opportunities to go to work with the school districts in the Joliet area... details are being worked out, but she will be great as an assistant in the classroom. She also loves being a minister's wife. James is avery talented leader and even better, he cares for and loves Lydia so much.
Abigail went back to school (Ozark Christian College). She had a very successful first semester... and is now working toward ministry opportunities for this summer. In addtion she got a job at Payless shoes, which fits her schedule well, and will help her prepare financially for the coming three years of college. She also has a boyfriend. Tyler is a great young man from Stilwater Ok. Abigial and him have known each other for several years and decided late this fall to "take it to a new level." They seem really good together. He is also a student at OCC.
So we are close to being empty-nesters. I can not think of anyone that I would like to share this latter part of my life with than Pam. We believe it will be alot of fun... Best of all, we are beginning to see new ways that God wants to work through us. Together!
The new year started off strong for the church. We have had great attendance. In addition we have had a bunch of baptisms... Our staff is praying for 100 this year. The building is coming along and withing 45 days of completion ( phase I). I knew this would be big...but I really had no idea. I am not sure that anyone could have prepared me for the amount of leadership, attention to detail, delegation and stress (yes... I said stress) that this has been. I have managed pretty well, but that is in large part due to a tremendous staff, great leaders and a super Building team. In addition to all that, I have seen God provide in multiple ways, from many different directions. The worship center is close to completion, as is the Early Childhood center. Children's areas are not far away... and believe it or not, Phase II is starting in the next couple weeks.
Health wise, I have ups and downs. I go back to the Dr. in March, which will be almost two years since the first stroke. I am not back to 100 %, but Pam reminds me that the Dr. said "Three years." Fatigue still slaps me down and when it does, my speech becomes a little garbled, and words don't seem to flow very well. One Sunday this last month, it was particularly bad... I had warnings... The Saturday before I was really tired. So when that happens, I try to stop what I am doing and just chill! ( To use Pam's word)
Overall, I am incredibly blessed. And grateful that God has chosen to allow me to live with whom I live with, serve the church I serve with and get to enjoy it all.
I can't ask for alot more than that.
Friday, December 28, 2007
Clarity
One of the things God is teaching me is the importance "clarity." When it comes to expectations, I think I am rather ambiguous.( As Pam would say "You think?!!!) I leave alot open to interpretation, instead of clearly spelling out what it is I expect.
This can be illustrated a dozen different ways. At home, I figure that after almost 27 years of marriage I should not have to explain myself. But then it occurs to me that I am not the same person I was 27 years ago, so how would Pam know what my expectations are?
Our kids are all grown, and pretty much out of the house. But I still think they should be able to predict what I want and execute it. (Those are not nice words in a family setting are they?)
At church, I am finding that I enslave fellow staff members to my feelings, because of a lack of clarity. Instead of me telling them exactly what I think, I hedge, or give options that sometimes are polar opposites of each other. I used to think that this was all good, because it builds teamwork. But as time goes on I believe that it really does just the opposite. It harms unity, and it opens us up to disappointment. I don't want that.
A conversation I had with a member of the church really brought this home. They had an idea about how to spend some money. It is a good idea... maybe even a really good idea. But I could not commit to it without some planning, talking to Elders and praying about it. But as the conversation went, I had a hard time saying it. Maybe it was because I wanted them to give the money. Maybe it was because I wanted them to give the money with no "ideas" attached. I know their heart and it is a heart that is so good. But eventually, I got around to sending a note to them explaining that I could not commit to their idea,( although I think it has exciting possibilities) and then followed that up with a phone call. And after it was over I thought, "Why couldn't have I been more clear with them about it upfront?" I was conflicted and found myself bouncing around on the subject. And that was not fair to them, or to myself.
Most of the time, my first instincts are pretty good. But I don't want to hurt someone's feelings. I want their approval. John Ortberg wrote a pretty good article entitled, "Approval Addiction" which I am trying to take to heart. (More about that another time).
Seems like Jesus said something about wanting the praise of men rather than the approval of God. ( John 12:43). I find myself thinking "What did they think about that?" without much regard to "What does HE think about that."
Soooooooo....I think the New year holds a "resolution" or maybe more like a goal ( certainly a prayer request). I want to be more clear with others about what I expect and feel. Then I can let the chips fall where they may. I think doing this will help my relationships at work, and at home.
2008 is around the corner... and I find myself thinking, " what will it all be like?" One thing that I would like to see in the next 12 months is a some growth in this area of my life.
If you want to pray about something specific for me.... Clarity would be a good start.
This can be illustrated a dozen different ways. At home, I figure that after almost 27 years of marriage I should not have to explain myself. But then it occurs to me that I am not the same person I was 27 years ago, so how would Pam know what my expectations are?
Our kids are all grown, and pretty much out of the house. But I still think they should be able to predict what I want and execute it. (Those are not nice words in a family setting are they?)
At church, I am finding that I enslave fellow staff members to my feelings, because of a lack of clarity. Instead of me telling them exactly what I think, I hedge, or give options that sometimes are polar opposites of each other. I used to think that this was all good, because it builds teamwork. But as time goes on I believe that it really does just the opposite. It harms unity, and it opens us up to disappointment. I don't want that.
A conversation I had with a member of the church really brought this home. They had an idea about how to spend some money. It is a good idea... maybe even a really good idea. But I could not commit to it without some planning, talking to Elders and praying about it. But as the conversation went, I had a hard time saying it. Maybe it was because I wanted them to give the money. Maybe it was because I wanted them to give the money with no "ideas" attached. I know their heart and it is a heart that is so good. But eventually, I got around to sending a note to them explaining that I could not commit to their idea,( although I think it has exciting possibilities) and then followed that up with a phone call. And after it was over I thought, "Why couldn't have I been more clear with them about it upfront?" I was conflicted and found myself bouncing around on the subject. And that was not fair to them, or to myself.
Most of the time, my first instincts are pretty good. But I don't want to hurt someone's feelings. I want their approval. John Ortberg wrote a pretty good article entitled, "Approval Addiction" which I am trying to take to heart. (More about that another time).
Seems like Jesus said something about wanting the praise of men rather than the approval of God. ( John 12:43). I find myself thinking "What did they think about that?" without much regard to "What does HE think about that."
Soooooooo....I think the New year holds a "resolution" or maybe more like a goal ( certainly a prayer request). I want to be more clear with others about what I expect and feel. Then I can let the chips fall where they may. I think doing this will help my relationships at work, and at home.
2008 is around the corner... and I find myself thinking, " what will it all be like?" One thing that I would like to see in the next 12 months is a some growth in this area of my life.
If you want to pray about something specific for me.... Clarity would be a good start.
Tuesday, December 25, 2007
Christmas 07
MERRY CHRISTMAS! We celebrated Christmas last night at church with our traditional Christmas Eve Services. We had two, one that was overflowing and one that was about 60 of seating capacity... It was a great service....simple and a really good balance of young and old. It just seemed right this year all the way around... I especially liked us getting the young kids on the stage to hear THE STORY. Aaron(our children's minister) did a great job with that.
Someone said "Next year, we will only have one service, right?" I said, "No way... we will need too." Our new building on North Garnett is about 30-45 days from being done..and there will be twice the seating capacity... but new people will come, and I pray that we will be overflowing in both services as we strive to tell people about Christ and the real meaning of Christmas.
With Nathaniel and Lizzie in town, we ate dinner and then opened gifts. I was pretty wiped out from 4 services in 36 hours, but managed to stay in the game for the evening. This time next year it will be Christmas with a grandchild. How cool is that! They will be fabulous parents... Their world is about to be rocked big time... what fun! I am thankful that they are close to us ( 100 miles.)
We miss James and Lydia, but know that God is blessing them in Joliet. It helps knowing that they are serving Christ there, making a difference with so many people. We hear that they are such a blessing to many. The Crossroads Church is doing so well, and the leadership of Matt and Janice ( James' brother and sister in law) and James and Lydia has been so influential on many people.
It is hard to be away... and this Christmas it double tough for them . It is the first "away" Christmas for both of them, along with dealing with the death of James' mother at Thanksgiving. However, Vicki gets a front row seat at the throne of Jesus this Christmas. She is praising God, hands raised, probably doing a little dance along the way... The kids have done so well through this... their character has shined through in a such a good way through this time.
Today... well I am playing my new Eagles album. WOW! what great stuff... We are getting ready for dinner and then Liz and Nathaniel will head back to Fayetteville.
It is has been really good having Joel and Abigial here as well... I love all our kids and what they bring to our lives in a special way. Abigail just finished her first semester at Ozark. I will brag a bit. She finished the semester with a 3.56 GPA, and that was on top of playing College Volleyball. The best part? She loves her classes and I can see how God is shaping her more and more into a Godly woman.
I am so happy for her. Where did my little Abigail go?
Joel is still on the job search. This has been a real patience building time for him. He is closing in on something that he is really excited about. He should know the end of the next week. Pray for him... and for his continued trust in God to provide for him. He has been working about 25 hours a week at the club and doing a bang up job there. They will hate to lose him there. What a great kid. ( He is not a kid anymore... :)
On top of all that is a special gift that came to our friends Danny and Pam Stout. Danny has been on the list for a liver tansplant for several years. Along the way, he has really battled for his health. Earlier this week he found out he was up to #3on the list. Then on Christmas Eve he moved to #1. Last night Pam and I prayed with Matt and Steph ( Danny's Daughter) that God would provide in his time. Less than 20 minutes later Danny got the call from OKC. "Be there in 4 hours!" And they were off... He went into surgery at 3 or so this morning and as of 10, he was out, with a functioning liver!
What a Christmas gift!!!! I know it is bittersweet, because there is another family on the other end who is probably struggling with the loss of a loved one on Christmas. So we pray for them although we probably will never know who that is.
We are so thankful for Christ, and his willing sacrifice for us. And we celebrate his sacrifice all year long. What a blessing!
Hope you had a wonderful time with your family this Christmas. And I hope that deep in your soul you know that you are loved by a God who is Creator, and a Savior who willingly came to pay the price for your sins... at just the right time.
Blessings
Charlie
Someone said "Next year, we will only have one service, right?" I said, "No way... we will need too." Our new building on North Garnett is about 30-45 days from being done..and there will be twice the seating capacity... but new people will come, and I pray that we will be overflowing in both services as we strive to tell people about Christ and the real meaning of Christmas.
With Nathaniel and Lizzie in town, we ate dinner and then opened gifts. I was pretty wiped out from 4 services in 36 hours, but managed to stay in the game for the evening. This time next year it will be Christmas with a grandchild. How cool is that! They will be fabulous parents... Their world is about to be rocked big time... what fun! I am thankful that they are close to us ( 100 miles.)
We miss James and Lydia, but know that God is blessing them in Joliet. It helps knowing that they are serving Christ there, making a difference with so many people. We hear that they are such a blessing to many. The Crossroads Church is doing so well, and the leadership of Matt and Janice ( James' brother and sister in law) and James and Lydia has been so influential on many people.
It is hard to be away... and this Christmas it double tough for them . It is the first "away" Christmas for both of them, along with dealing with the death of James' mother at Thanksgiving. However, Vicki gets a front row seat at the throne of Jesus this Christmas. She is praising God, hands raised, probably doing a little dance along the way... The kids have done so well through this... their character has shined through in a such a good way through this time.
Today... well I am playing my new Eagles album. WOW! what great stuff... We are getting ready for dinner and then Liz and Nathaniel will head back to Fayetteville.
It is has been really good having Joel and Abigial here as well... I love all our kids and what they bring to our lives in a special way. Abigail just finished her first semester at Ozark. I will brag a bit. She finished the semester with a 3.56 GPA, and that was on top of playing College Volleyball. The best part? She loves her classes and I can see how God is shaping her more and more into a Godly woman.
I am so happy for her. Where did my little Abigail go?
Joel is still on the job search. This has been a real patience building time for him. He is closing in on something that he is really excited about. He should know the end of the next week. Pray for him... and for his continued trust in God to provide for him. He has been working about 25 hours a week at the club and doing a bang up job there. They will hate to lose him there. What a great kid. ( He is not a kid anymore... :)
On top of all that is a special gift that came to our friends Danny and Pam Stout. Danny has been on the list for a liver tansplant for several years. Along the way, he has really battled for his health. Earlier this week he found out he was up to #3on the list. Then on Christmas Eve he moved to #1. Last night Pam and I prayed with Matt and Steph ( Danny's Daughter) that God would provide in his time. Less than 20 minutes later Danny got the call from OKC. "Be there in 4 hours!" And they were off... He went into surgery at 3 or so this morning and as of 10, he was out, with a functioning liver!
What a Christmas gift!!!! I know it is bittersweet, because there is another family on the other end who is probably struggling with the loss of a loved one on Christmas. So we pray for them although we probably will never know who that is.
We are so thankful for Christ, and his willing sacrifice for us. And we celebrate his sacrifice all year long. What a blessing!
Hope you had a wonderful time with your family this Christmas. And I hope that deep in your soul you know that you are loved by a God who is Creator, and a Savior who willingly came to pay the price for your sins... at just the right time.
Blessings
Charlie
Saturday, December 22, 2007
Some Saturday Morning Thoughts
Here are some "wierd" things running through my mind. These all give me pause to take moment and give it a second thought.
Steroids....I see why men and women would fill their body with illegal drugs to gain a competitive edge. The money...bottom line it is about the money.
I see why newspapers like the LA Times would say that a certain federal indictment includes the names of Andy Pettite and Roger Clemens. Money... plain and simple.. outside of Barry Bonds, there was one other name out there that would make money. Roger Clemens.
I see why people think it could be true. in '96 his team says he is washed up, on the downside and they refuse to resign him to a huge contract. So he signs with Toronto, and then goes on to win multiple Cy Youngs, another 160 games, pitch for the Yankees ( No way!) and is considered a medical and physiological marvel. Certain Hall of Famer! And then the Mitchell report comes out with Roger Clemens in it.
What I don't get is that the Mitchell report was not a criminal investigation. He had some powers that I would not have, but from my perspective it seems that what Sen. Mitchell did was ask alot of questions, gather information from a couple informants who are marginal at best and then wrote a 400 page plus report, naming names.
The problem? No evidence or proof. No checks in the Mitchell report from Roger Clemens. No cooborating evidence from others. Just hearsay. And with that comes all the doubt, the insinuations and the assumptions that because he was so good at the end of his career, it must been because of needles and pills pushed and popped at just the right time ( give him muscles and to avoid detection)
In the interest of full disclosure, I have been a Red Sox Fan since 1967. That makes me a Roger Clemens fan. I don't really follow or care about baseball except for the Red Sox. ( Which makes 2 out of the last 4 years pretty good). But I have loved the Red Sox. I wear a Red Sox hat every day when I work out. I have a little ten year old boy whose dad works at the place I work out, who comes in and wants to talk Red Sox everyday. I am his best friend, because I know who is hitting the ball, whose not, and what kind of wierd mood Manny Rameriz is in. And I have paid attention to Roger Clemens, no matter where he pitches, even when he is pitching for the Yankees!UGH!
So here is my problem. The mere mention of his name in the Mitchell report has sullied his name forever. If he is guilty of the crime, then he should come out and say so, and let us deal with it. But he has come out and said, "No way,ever.!" Whose to say? I don't know.
But here is what I do know... If someone, anyone, accuses me of immorality, or inappropriate action toward someone else, especially a woman or a child, true or not, I am pretty much done. It would not take proof. It would not take evidence. It would just take the statement, said at the right place and the right time. And it is not just me. Teachers, coaches,Doctors, Dentists, business ownwers and a boat load of other professions face the same kinds of things. It is the reality.
What can I do?( or anyone else). Well, make sure you live a consistent life that reflects the values of Christ in every way. Make sure you do not put yourself in obvious situations that might cause someone to "think" they see something.
And leave it in the hands of God. I don't know if Clemens is doing that or not ( He has been pretty quiet, but his lawyer is making alot of threats about lawsuits). If it happens to you or me, we won't have a 28 million dollar a year contract to fall back on, or high priced lawyers.
But do have God, and those who know us well and know this world well. I will take my chances with him.
It may be that I am being "snowed" by the only baseball player I have really followed closely... but it may be that what he says is the truth.
Whatever happened to "innocent until proven guilty?" In the days of internet , tabloid journalism, Senate committee hearings and GREED, that statement seems strangely distant from the public eye.
Well, that is the rant of the day.
One other thing on my mind... after two weekens of Ice/Snow and more snow due today.
Here it is....
"Why does God plan snow and ice on Saturdays and Saturday nights?"
Hmmmmmmn...something only a preacher or a teacher would give a second thought to. Guess that is why the do not ask me to "play God" in the play.
Have a great day!
Steroids....I see why men and women would fill their body with illegal drugs to gain a competitive edge. The money...bottom line it is about the money.
I see why newspapers like the LA Times would say that a certain federal indictment includes the names of Andy Pettite and Roger Clemens. Money... plain and simple.. outside of Barry Bonds, there was one other name out there that would make money. Roger Clemens.
I see why people think it could be true. in '96 his team says he is washed up, on the downside and they refuse to resign him to a huge contract. So he signs with Toronto, and then goes on to win multiple Cy Youngs, another 160 games, pitch for the Yankees ( No way!) and is considered a medical and physiological marvel. Certain Hall of Famer! And then the Mitchell report comes out with Roger Clemens in it.
What I don't get is that the Mitchell report was not a criminal investigation. He had some powers that I would not have, but from my perspective it seems that what Sen. Mitchell did was ask alot of questions, gather information from a couple informants who are marginal at best and then wrote a 400 page plus report, naming names.
The problem? No evidence or proof. No checks in the Mitchell report from Roger Clemens. No cooborating evidence from others. Just hearsay. And with that comes all the doubt, the insinuations and the assumptions that because he was so good at the end of his career, it must been because of needles and pills pushed and popped at just the right time ( give him muscles and to avoid detection)
In the interest of full disclosure, I have been a Red Sox Fan since 1967. That makes me a Roger Clemens fan. I don't really follow or care about baseball except for the Red Sox. ( Which makes 2 out of the last 4 years pretty good). But I have loved the Red Sox. I wear a Red Sox hat every day when I work out. I have a little ten year old boy whose dad works at the place I work out, who comes in and wants to talk Red Sox everyday. I am his best friend, because I know who is hitting the ball, whose not, and what kind of wierd mood Manny Rameriz is in. And I have paid attention to Roger Clemens, no matter where he pitches, even when he is pitching for the Yankees!UGH!
So here is my problem. The mere mention of his name in the Mitchell report has sullied his name forever. If he is guilty of the crime, then he should come out and say so, and let us deal with it. But he has come out and said, "No way,ever.!" Whose to say? I don't know.
But here is what I do know... If someone, anyone, accuses me of immorality, or inappropriate action toward someone else, especially a woman or a child, true or not, I am pretty much done. It would not take proof. It would not take evidence. It would just take the statement, said at the right place and the right time. And it is not just me. Teachers, coaches,Doctors, Dentists, business ownwers and a boat load of other professions face the same kinds of things. It is the reality.
What can I do?( or anyone else). Well, make sure you live a consistent life that reflects the values of Christ in every way. Make sure you do not put yourself in obvious situations that might cause someone to "think" they see something.
And leave it in the hands of God. I don't know if Clemens is doing that or not ( He has been pretty quiet, but his lawyer is making alot of threats about lawsuits). If it happens to you or me, we won't have a 28 million dollar a year contract to fall back on, or high priced lawyers.
But do have God, and those who know us well and know this world well. I will take my chances with him.
It may be that I am being "snowed" by the only baseball player I have really followed closely... but it may be that what he says is the truth.
Whatever happened to "innocent until proven guilty?" In the days of internet , tabloid journalism, Senate committee hearings and GREED, that statement seems strangely distant from the public eye.
Well, that is the rant of the day.
One other thing on my mind... after two weekens of Ice/Snow and more snow due today.
Here it is....
"Why does God plan snow and ice on Saturdays and Saturday nights?"
Hmmmmmmn...something only a preacher or a teacher would give a second thought to. Guess that is why the do not ask me to "play God" in the play.
Have a great day!
Thursday, December 13, 2007
Ice and Snow
Ice storms are no fun.
Last Sunday night the freezing rain started pelting NE Oklahoma. At the time, I think we all thought it would pass. In the middle of the night the cracking and breaking of limbs began. That grew into total destruction of many trees in the area.
We live next to Centennial Park,which is full of large older trees. The sound of trees breaking under the weight of ice is erie. Fortunately we have just one young tree in our front yard, so the damage to our property was minimal. However,many in our community and church were not so fortunate.
Then the power went out. 4 days later there are still nearly 200,000 people who have no power. Most of Owasso was knocked out, especially in the older part of the town. We were blessed. Ours was out 10 hours. At first it seemed inconvienent, but as I have seen others go through days of no power, we got off pretty good.
Our church became a shelter on Monday Morning. Our Staff has done a superb job in organzing and directing the shelter. We did not know what we were doing, but with the leadership skills of our team, we have managed to help well over 100 people. We have had alot of help from church members as well. We have good hearted people who want to serve. What a blessing
Now, we have word that a snowstorm is approaching. It could be heavy, but this is Oklahoma, and it seems after living here for 25 years, Weather experts in Oklahoma rarely know how to forecast snow.
Should be interesting.
Last Sunday night the freezing rain started pelting NE Oklahoma. At the time, I think we all thought it would pass. In the middle of the night the cracking and breaking of limbs began. That grew into total destruction of many trees in the area.
We live next to Centennial Park,which is full of large older trees. The sound of trees breaking under the weight of ice is erie. Fortunately we have just one young tree in our front yard, so the damage to our property was minimal. However,many in our community and church were not so fortunate.
Then the power went out. 4 days later there are still nearly 200,000 people who have no power. Most of Owasso was knocked out, especially in the older part of the town. We were blessed. Ours was out 10 hours. At first it seemed inconvienent, but as I have seen others go through days of no power, we got off pretty good.
Our church became a shelter on Monday Morning. Our Staff has done a superb job in organzing and directing the shelter. We did not know what we were doing, but with the leadership skills of our team, we have managed to help well over 100 people. We have had alot of help from church members as well. We have good hearted people who want to serve. What a blessing
Now, we have word that a snowstorm is approaching. It could be heavy, but this is Oklahoma, and it seems after living here for 25 years, Weather experts in Oklahoma rarely know how to forecast snow.
Should be interesting.
Sunday, December 02, 2007
On my mind...
One of the fun things I have done this fall has been the Leadership class that I have been leading on Wednesday nights. We took a different route than in the past with reading a couple books together (Lead Like Jesus and The Resilient Life). Abotu 25 guys have stayed with it in the class since the first of September. The discussion has been challenging to me. Good for me to listen to the hearts of men.
I am not sure where it will go from here, as this Wednesday night is our last group meeting. But I am hoping that some small groups will evolve out of this that can be an ongoing discipleship opportunity for the men in our church.
Today's services seemed much more alive than the past few weeks. That is encouraging. October and Nov. have produced some 'flat' spots , but hopefully today is an indication that we are ramping up again.
People are ready for the building to get done... Probably still 60 days from occupying, but alot is happening. The work is accerlating for sure. There are still lots of questions about what we are doing once we occupy. I am glad that God is in control. And I am thankful for the staff of the church, which carries on, inspite of some the uncertainty.
I am not sure where it will go from here, as this Wednesday night is our last group meeting. But I am hoping that some small groups will evolve out of this that can be an ongoing discipleship opportunity for the men in our church.
Today's services seemed much more alive than the past few weeks. That is encouraging. October and Nov. have produced some 'flat' spots , but hopefully today is an indication that we are ramping up again.
People are ready for the building to get done... Probably still 60 days from occupying, but alot is happening. The work is accerlating for sure. There are still lots of questions about what we are doing once we occupy. I am glad that God is in control. And I am thankful for the staff of the church, which carries on, inspite of some the uncertainty.
Wednesday, November 28, 2007
Birth Announcement
The announcement of the upcoming birth of a baby can be a life changing event. Think about what we read in Luke 1.
It begins with Gabriel sharing the good news with Zecharaih. Zechariah was old, he had prayed along side his wife for years that a baby would come into their lives. It seems that the time had passed. And then The Angel shows up and says, "Guess what?!!!!"
Zechariah had a hard time believing this news... and so The Angel said, "How about you listen for 9 months, and I will get back to you?" Of course we know how that story turned out. John the Baptist was born..and life was never the same.
The Gabriel goes to the virgin Mary...That must have been a very interesting assignment for Him. "Hmmmmmnnnn.. I wonder how this is going to go over?"
We know the rest of that story too.. Jesus, the Son of God was born.... and life will never be the same.
Both birth announcements were part of a grander plan in which God placed two people, one completely human and one who was both human and divine, on the earth to change things...
As far as I know, an angel did not appear to my daughter Elizabeth recently... but she does find herself "with child." Its pretty exciting... knowing that this child has the opportunity to change the world for God. Elizabeth and Nathaniel will make great parents.
Oh, by the way, there was no "You've got to be kidding me" from Charlie. So sermons will continue for the next 6 months... and I will get more and more excied to see who God brings in to my life... in the form of a little baby. Pretty exciting stuff.
It begins with Gabriel sharing the good news with Zecharaih. Zechariah was old, he had prayed along side his wife for years that a baby would come into their lives. It seems that the time had passed. And then The Angel shows up and says, "Guess what?!!!!"
Zechariah had a hard time believing this news... and so The Angel said, "How about you listen for 9 months, and I will get back to you?" Of course we know how that story turned out. John the Baptist was born..and life was never the same.
The Gabriel goes to the virgin Mary...That must have been a very interesting assignment for Him. "Hmmmmmnnnn.. I wonder how this is going to go over?"
We know the rest of that story too.. Jesus, the Son of God was born.... and life will never be the same.
Both birth announcements were part of a grander plan in which God placed two people, one completely human and one who was both human and divine, on the earth to change things...
As far as I know, an angel did not appear to my daughter Elizabeth recently... but she does find herself "with child." Its pretty exciting... knowing that this child has the opportunity to change the world for God. Elizabeth and Nathaniel will make great parents.
Oh, by the way, there was no "You've got to be kidding me" from Charlie. So sermons will continue for the next 6 months... and I will get more and more excied to see who God brings in to my life... in the form of a little baby. Pretty exciting stuff.
Monday, November 19, 2007
Get out of the way
It is late on Monday night. Today, in between a couple meetings, I have spent time at the hospital ministering to a family who is suffering. This morning, I talked with the husband at length as he tries to get his arms around the fact that his wife's health is suddenly failing, and there seems to be little or nothing he can do about it. It truly is a situation where she is in God's hands... He knows it, and he has been incredibly strong and tender at the same time. I don't know if I would be that way or not. But his heart has no anger, just a combination of sorrow and gratefulness for 33 years of marriage. Strength and Tenderness... qualities that only could come through the love of God. Tom has that.
Tonight, I went back. I took Pam with me. Over the years she has not done alot of this with me, in large part because she has had a job that she was not always able to break away from, and four kids who needed her attention. But now that we are semi "empty-nesters", she has been getting out more and connecting with people in need in a more visible way. I love this new stage of life from this perspective. I have NEVER been disappointed with her, when she enters into ministry in this way. Tonight was no exception. She brings a calming influence, a spiritual strength, an encouraging lift, and a peaceful look. Later in the evening, I was running out of gas and feeling it. So I came home, but Pam stayed.
What was interesting to me was the combination that God brought to the situation. For during the time we were there Nancy came by. Nancy is a Cancer Care Nurse that looks at what she does as a calling... a ministry... She waited till her kids were out of the house, and then heard a call from God to step out on faith and go back to school. Her purpose in life is to glorify God by helping people in these very difficult situations like cancer. She said to me, " It is an honor to help someone through this into the presence of Jesus." I had never really thought of it that way before.
I watched Nancy and Pam work side by side to comfort and strengthen the family. And I realized that even though I am the "preacher", they were bringing something that I could not bring. I can't put my finger on it, but I knew that when I left them with the family, that it would be not only okay, but better.
It reminds me that God gifts his children with special abilities that can not always be predicted. It can not always be coached. It can not always be understood. He just does stuff like this to show that He will use anyone who is willing, at any time and any where. I like that about God. No seminary degree was needed tonight. No resumes. No special doctrinal statements. Just words of faith. Just reminders that Jesus died for people so that when we face the moment of death, there is a way to God. There was no special choir , except for the family members that sang " When we all get to Heaven." and "I can only imagine." There was little in the way of chatter... some tears...but really tears of hope and joy...mixed with some sorrow and pain. There was scripture, and hope, encouragement to her that it was all okay... and when she saw Jesus, she could go.
Its just the thing God specializes in... For he knew from the Garden on that all human being would face a physical death. And in His Grace, he uses people , sometimes surprising people, sometimes suprised people, to bring just the right word, the right touch, the right song, and the right kind of joy to such a situation like this. And In His grace, he provided his Son... whose sacrifice was exactly what we needed for a time like this.
That is a combination that can't be beat....
And to think... no one even asked the preacher if it was okay 0:).He just brought the two ladies together and said to me, "Get out of the way."
I love God for that.
Tonight, I went back. I took Pam with me. Over the years she has not done alot of this with me, in large part because she has had a job that she was not always able to break away from, and four kids who needed her attention. But now that we are semi "empty-nesters", she has been getting out more and connecting with people in need in a more visible way. I love this new stage of life from this perspective. I have NEVER been disappointed with her, when she enters into ministry in this way. Tonight was no exception. She brings a calming influence, a spiritual strength, an encouraging lift, and a peaceful look. Later in the evening, I was running out of gas and feeling it. So I came home, but Pam stayed.
What was interesting to me was the combination that God brought to the situation. For during the time we were there Nancy came by. Nancy is a Cancer Care Nurse that looks at what she does as a calling... a ministry... She waited till her kids were out of the house, and then heard a call from God to step out on faith and go back to school. Her purpose in life is to glorify God by helping people in these very difficult situations like cancer. She said to me, " It is an honor to help someone through this into the presence of Jesus." I had never really thought of it that way before.
I watched Nancy and Pam work side by side to comfort and strengthen the family. And I realized that even though I am the "preacher", they were bringing something that I could not bring. I can't put my finger on it, but I knew that when I left them with the family, that it would be not only okay, but better.
It reminds me that God gifts his children with special abilities that can not always be predicted. It can not always be coached. It can not always be understood. He just does stuff like this to show that He will use anyone who is willing, at any time and any where. I like that about God. No seminary degree was needed tonight. No resumes. No special doctrinal statements. Just words of faith. Just reminders that Jesus died for people so that when we face the moment of death, there is a way to God. There was no special choir , except for the family members that sang " When we all get to Heaven." and "I can only imagine." There was little in the way of chatter... some tears...but really tears of hope and joy...mixed with some sorrow and pain. There was scripture, and hope, encouragement to her that it was all okay... and when she saw Jesus, she could go.
Its just the thing God specializes in... For he knew from the Garden on that all human being would face a physical death. And in His Grace, he uses people , sometimes surprising people, sometimes suprised people, to bring just the right word, the right touch, the right song, and the right kind of joy to such a situation like this. And In His grace, he provided his Son... whose sacrifice was exactly what we needed for a time like this.
That is a combination that can't be beat....
And to think... no one even asked the preacher if it was okay 0:).He just brought the two ladies together and said to me, "Get out of the way."
I love God for that.
Catching up
Has it really been a month since I last posted? Lots of stuff happening... Let's see... where do I start???
Well, how about some good news? Our oldest daughter Elizabeth is pregnant!!!! How about that! She is 12 weeks along. So that puts her "due" date around June 1. This is going to be great fun. We already have the pics of the baby at 11 weeks (They are ABSOLUTELY AMAZING!) Lizzie and Nathaniel will make great parents... although I have told them that they are in for the ride of their lives!
Our church building continues its progress toward completion. Here is a big surprise for you construction buffs... the completion date keeps moving! Oh well, I am thankful that God has worked it out where there is not a real strong pressure to move out of our current building... so it can be done right and we can watch God work his timing in all of this ( That is the big lesson for the whole project.) So when are we moving you ask? Stay tuned.
We have had to make some major decisions in the past month, many with great pain and angst. The biggest one in my mind has been the decision of the Elders to close Our Little Saints Preschool at the end of this coming school year. This preschool has been such a huge part of our community and church for 28 years. Building restrictions in Phase I have limited what we can do in a "weekday" situation. So with that we have had to take it as God's leading and begin to look at new ways to minister. But that does not minimize the pain that such changes create. So we are trying to be sensitive to how God is working here.
There is alot of change going on here. But I am so proud of our Staff, Elders and congregation who have kept the big picture in mind and see the opporutnities ahead, even though they are requiring alot of different directions and programming.
I just got back from Oregon where I found my parents doing relatively well. I love being around them and watching as they compensate for each other and struggle together through increasing health difficulties. They have big decisions to make in the coming months... so pray for them.
This Thursday is Thanksgiving... We had our Thanksgiving banquet last night and it was PACKED OUT. Great food, entertainment and lots of laughter.
I hope that you have occassion this week to take some time and think about your blessings. I know that Pam and I have done that and will continue to do so, as our family grows... and as we experience both the ups and downs of life. The best blessing? Well, its that no matter what comes our way, we are not alone. I take great comfort in knowing that God is my refuge... and my strength.
Well, how about some good news? Our oldest daughter Elizabeth is pregnant!!!! How about that! She is 12 weeks along. So that puts her "due" date around June 1. This is going to be great fun. We already have the pics of the baby at 11 weeks (They are ABSOLUTELY AMAZING!) Lizzie and Nathaniel will make great parents... although I have told them that they are in for the ride of their lives!
Our church building continues its progress toward completion. Here is a big surprise for you construction buffs... the completion date keeps moving! Oh well, I am thankful that God has worked it out where there is not a real strong pressure to move out of our current building... so it can be done right and we can watch God work his timing in all of this ( That is the big lesson for the whole project.) So when are we moving you ask? Stay tuned.
We have had to make some major decisions in the past month, many with great pain and angst. The biggest one in my mind has been the decision of the Elders to close Our Little Saints Preschool at the end of this coming school year. This preschool has been such a huge part of our community and church for 28 years. Building restrictions in Phase I have limited what we can do in a "weekday" situation. So with that we have had to take it as God's leading and begin to look at new ways to minister. But that does not minimize the pain that such changes create. So we are trying to be sensitive to how God is working here.
There is alot of change going on here. But I am so proud of our Staff, Elders and congregation who have kept the big picture in mind and see the opporutnities ahead, even though they are requiring alot of different directions and programming.
I just got back from Oregon where I found my parents doing relatively well. I love being around them and watching as they compensate for each other and struggle together through increasing health difficulties. They have big decisions to make in the coming months... so pray for them.
This Thursday is Thanksgiving... We had our Thanksgiving banquet last night and it was PACKED OUT. Great food, entertainment and lots of laughter.
I hope that you have occassion this week to take some time and think about your blessings. I know that Pam and I have done that and will continue to do so, as our family grows... and as we experience both the ups and downs of life. The best blessing? Well, its that no matter what comes our way, we are not alone. I take great comfort in knowing that God is my refuge... and my strength.
Monday, October 22, 2007
Rainy days and Mondays
Mondays are not usually a preacher's friend. I heard a well known preacher once say that he had a rule..."Never write a resignation letter on a Monday." The afterglow of Sunday ( good or bad) can sometimes influence decisions on Monday. I usually try to limit the "big stuff" on Mondays... just in case I am little foggy.( No resignation letter here)
Due to fall break , and I suppose other factors, Sunday's church attendance was not stellar. However, it was a tremendous service. We dedicated the entire 75 minutes to what Christ is doing through a missions team from FCC and missionaries in Honduras by the name of Jim and Teri Riley.
We had alot of video elements,a powerful drama , an internet conference call with Jim Riley and more in the service. That all sounds good, but the potential is there for any one element to not come off well.
Well yesterday it all went well. Each piece seemed to fit with the rest, all the technology was effective, and the spirit of the services was so positive. So many had a huge part in it... I can't really name them all.
The best response came aftewards when a woman came up to me with tears streaming down her face. She said, "I need to know where I can sign up to go on a missions trip... I have to do this." I hugged her, told her who to talk to and she thanked me.
Last evening I had another note from a couple who thanked us for the service and the part that we all do to bring the Kingdom of God alive.
It was a good day... A great day. And it goes to show you ( and me ) that the numbers do not always tell the whole story.
Even though it is rainy today, and is a Monday... it is still a good day
Due to fall break , and I suppose other factors, Sunday's church attendance was not stellar. However, it was a tremendous service. We dedicated the entire 75 minutes to what Christ is doing through a missions team from FCC and missionaries in Honduras by the name of Jim and Teri Riley.
We had alot of video elements,a powerful drama , an internet conference call with Jim Riley and more in the service. That all sounds good, but the potential is there for any one element to not come off well.
Well yesterday it all went well. Each piece seemed to fit with the rest, all the technology was effective, and the spirit of the services was so positive. So many had a huge part in it... I can't really name them all.
The best response came aftewards when a woman came up to me with tears streaming down her face. She said, "I need to know where I can sign up to go on a missions trip... I have to do this." I hugged her, told her who to talk to and she thanked me.
Last evening I had another note from a couple who thanked us for the service and the part that we all do to bring the Kingdom of God alive.
It was a good day... A great day. And it goes to show you ( and me ) that the numbers do not always tell the whole story.
Even though it is rainy today, and is a Monday... it is still a good day
Friday, October 19, 2007
"Face Down"
Many of you know that my Dad has had a real struggle with his eyes. Macular Degeneration is a difficult disease to contain, and his journey with this has been up and down.
At some points in the past year, the news has been good... stabilization and improvement. But other times, it has not been so good. Last week, his left eye completely went blind.
This week he had a procedure done which brings about the possibility of some restoration. It involved putting a gas bubble into his eye, which might push some of the blood clots aside, enabling his eyesight to improve.
What makes this particularly difficult is that as a part of the recovery he is supposed to spend 23 out of the 24 hours a day "face down." Think about that for a second. To give this bubble its greatest chance, he has to spend almost every waking moment and every sleeping moment on his face.
I really can't imagine that. My Mom and Dad are trying to take advantage of some technology that will enable him to sleep, sit, and even watch some TV ( although that is limited because of the lack of eyesight), but this still has to be a very difficult situation.
I was praying for them this morning and couple thoughts came to mind...
* This is what growing older is about. Body parts wear out. Things don't work as well as they used to... and sometimes there is nothing you can do about it. You can't stop it, stall it , or suppress it... It just happens.
* This is why we all have to live as though this life is not all there is. My parents are Christians. They love God, and they love their church. Their faith is in Christ... and although they both have had fairly long lives and lots of blessings, they totally understand that "this is not all there is." Heaven awaits, and in heaven there will be no more tears, sorrow, or death. (and there will be no eyesight maladies....) Whatever Dad is not able to gain back here, he will have in full living color in heaven.
* Sometimes you try things that are really difficult to handle. I thought.."Three weeks face down..." Could I do that? I love my Dad and Mom's attitude. It is going to be hard... really hard, but you do what you have to do. If this gives him some eyesight back, it is worth it.
* Last, I realized that my parents are teaching me some of life's greatest lessons in the late years of their lives. The lessons about resilence, faith, perseverance, and doing the right thing are life lessons that I need reminders on. These lessons that they are living out are treasures to me.
2007 has not been an easy year for them. You could make the case that it has been one of the toughest... but they keep plugging away. They have not given up. They look to God for strength and peace. And they are quick to run to each other's aid, no matter the cost.
I would ask you to pray for mom and dad. They really need those prayers right now.
At some points in the past year, the news has been good... stabilization and improvement. But other times, it has not been so good. Last week, his left eye completely went blind.
This week he had a procedure done which brings about the possibility of some restoration. It involved putting a gas bubble into his eye, which might push some of the blood clots aside, enabling his eyesight to improve.
What makes this particularly difficult is that as a part of the recovery he is supposed to spend 23 out of the 24 hours a day "face down." Think about that for a second. To give this bubble its greatest chance, he has to spend almost every waking moment and every sleeping moment on his face.
I really can't imagine that. My Mom and Dad are trying to take advantage of some technology that will enable him to sleep, sit, and even watch some TV ( although that is limited because of the lack of eyesight), but this still has to be a very difficult situation.
I was praying for them this morning and couple thoughts came to mind...
* This is what growing older is about. Body parts wear out. Things don't work as well as they used to... and sometimes there is nothing you can do about it. You can't stop it, stall it , or suppress it... It just happens.
* This is why we all have to live as though this life is not all there is. My parents are Christians. They love God, and they love their church. Their faith is in Christ... and although they both have had fairly long lives and lots of blessings, they totally understand that "this is not all there is." Heaven awaits, and in heaven there will be no more tears, sorrow, or death. (and there will be no eyesight maladies....) Whatever Dad is not able to gain back here, he will have in full living color in heaven.
* Sometimes you try things that are really difficult to handle. I thought.."Three weeks face down..." Could I do that? I love my Dad and Mom's attitude. It is going to be hard... really hard, but you do what you have to do. If this gives him some eyesight back, it is worth it.
* Last, I realized that my parents are teaching me some of life's greatest lessons in the late years of their lives. The lessons about resilence, faith, perseverance, and doing the right thing are life lessons that I need reminders on. These lessons that they are living out are treasures to me.
2007 has not been an easy year for them. You could make the case that it has been one of the toughest... but they keep plugging away. They have not given up. They look to God for strength and peace. And they are quick to run to each other's aid, no matter the cost.
I would ask you to pray for mom and dad. They really need those prayers right now.
Sunday, October 14, 2007
A different kind of Sunday
Today, I took a Sunday off. Part of the plan for my return from the stroke was that I would limit the long run of preaching which I had been doing in the past.Six to 8 weeks in a row seems to be the limit right now. So, this was a day when I sat back and became a congregational member.
I went to two churches. I attended a downtown Tulsa Church at 8:30. It is always nice to viist, see how some people do things differently. The preacher is one of my favorites... he makes me think and challenges my way of preaching in some very real ways. His messages fill my soul. I am convinced that regular exposure to good preaching is vital to good preaching on my part. And there is something about hearing it in person in the context of the church, not just on the tapes or CD's .
Then I came back to FCC. I sat in the back with Pam and Joel, which was intersting. Some observations....
One, We have some sound problems. I can see how people don't want to sing, because it really does feel like you are the only one singing. So people don;t sing.
Two, people don't know exactly what to do with me when I show up and I am not preaching. Some were making assumptions that I was not well, which was not the case. Others thought that maybe I have had a set back on the health front. That is not the case. Still others took the opportunity to "talk business."
Its pretty hard to be a regular member when you are the preacher. But I also appreciate their concern and confidence. One thing I do have is a small group who allow me to be me, not the preacher.... what a blessing.
Three, Matt Thomason is good preacher... I like his heart.
It was a good day... different for sure,but good.
I went to two churches. I attended a downtown Tulsa Church at 8:30. It is always nice to viist, see how some people do things differently. The preacher is one of my favorites... he makes me think and challenges my way of preaching in some very real ways. His messages fill my soul. I am convinced that regular exposure to good preaching is vital to good preaching on my part. And there is something about hearing it in person in the context of the church, not just on the tapes or CD's .
Then I came back to FCC. I sat in the back with Pam and Joel, which was intersting. Some observations....
One, We have some sound problems. I can see how people don't want to sing, because it really does feel like you are the only one singing. So people don;t sing.
Two, people don't know exactly what to do with me when I show up and I am not preaching. Some were making assumptions that I was not well, which was not the case. Others thought that maybe I have had a set back on the health front. That is not the case. Still others took the opportunity to "talk business."
Its pretty hard to be a regular member when you are the preacher. But I also appreciate their concern and confidence. One thing I do have is a small group who allow me to be me, not the preacher.... what a blessing.
Three, Matt Thomason is good preacher... I like his heart.
It was a good day... different for sure,but good.
Wednesday, October 10, 2007
Interesting question...
I had a friend ask me if I would ever follow the lead of a church out east which had a series entitled, "Our Rotten Sex Life...." The question got me to thinking and doing a little dashing around the internet.
Some observations....
One, several churches have done this. There efforts have garnered some churches nationwide media attention, some have apparently not. Not all of it has been positive. ( but is that what we are looking for?)
Two, my opinion is that it is a good thing to talk about what the Bible talks about. ( Sex is in the Bible, its a gift from God. Its a good thing when done in the right place, with the right person, and with righ motives.)
Three, Squash is still squash to me. My parents love squash. I have never liked it and avoid it at almost all cost. You can cook it, bake, it, bar-be-que it. You can fry it, drown it in butter, or brown sugar... I will not eat it. ( Please, no attempts to change my mind here... It is what it is to me.)
In this case, I am not interested in judging motives... Some will say that such a "marketing" effort is wrong, innappropriate and insensitive. Others will say, " Go for it, More power to you, way to be on the cutting edge."
I figure that if I am going to make a decision about what is good in this case, I ought to at least listen to the messages.
No matter what the outside looks like to me, I am interested in content... Sometimes our efforts can cloud the content. We need to be careful.
Four, In our attempts to be relevant, we all need to be careful that we do not take away from the real message. I did not say, "Do not be relevant." It just seems to me like some discretion is a good thing here.
What may work on the coasts, may not work here. God himself will judge the fruit of such efforts. I am thankful that God is able to use all efforts to share his Word to change people. That is what makes it fun to be in Owasso. There are lots of churches, doing great things, with many different approaches. I am glad that not all churches are not like the one I help lead... Many preachers and churches preach the Word. They just come at it a little different than me.
My calling is to preach the Word in the location I live in. Some like the effort, some don't don't. Some like the packaging, some don't. But my goal is that when people finish listening they will know more of the Word, and the Word will change them. ( Content and application)
I will leave the judging to Him.
So to answer his question... "Probably not..." It's not me.
Some observations....
One, several churches have done this. There efforts have garnered some churches nationwide media attention, some have apparently not. Not all of it has been positive. ( but is that what we are looking for?)
Two, my opinion is that it is a good thing to talk about what the Bible talks about. ( Sex is in the Bible, its a gift from God. Its a good thing when done in the right place, with the right person, and with righ motives.)
Three, Squash is still squash to me. My parents love squash. I have never liked it and avoid it at almost all cost. You can cook it, bake, it, bar-be-que it. You can fry it, drown it in butter, or brown sugar... I will not eat it. ( Please, no attempts to change my mind here... It is what it is to me.)
In this case, I am not interested in judging motives... Some will say that such a "marketing" effort is wrong, innappropriate and insensitive. Others will say, " Go for it, More power to you, way to be on the cutting edge."
I figure that if I am going to make a decision about what is good in this case, I ought to at least listen to the messages.
No matter what the outside looks like to me, I am interested in content... Sometimes our efforts can cloud the content. We need to be careful.
Four, In our attempts to be relevant, we all need to be careful that we do not take away from the real message. I did not say, "Do not be relevant." It just seems to me like some discretion is a good thing here.
What may work on the coasts, may not work here. God himself will judge the fruit of such efforts. I am thankful that God is able to use all efforts to share his Word to change people. That is what makes it fun to be in Owasso. There are lots of churches, doing great things, with many different approaches. I am glad that not all churches are not like the one I help lead... Many preachers and churches preach the Word. They just come at it a little different than me.
My calling is to preach the Word in the location I live in. Some like the effort, some don't don't. Some like the packaging, some don't. But my goal is that when people finish listening they will know more of the Word, and the Word will change them. ( Content and application)
I will leave the judging to Him.
So to answer his question... "Probably not..." It's not me.
Saturday, October 06, 2007
Catching up
I am back!!!! I don't know if that is good news, or if it should constitute a warning.
Blogging takes time and brain power..neither of which I seem to have alot of. But today, I have a litte of both, so I am going to catch you up a bit.
Health- GOOD! The blood clots have cleared up and the tests seem to be encouraging. More scans in 8 weeks, and go from there. My energy level is up and down, which I am learning to accept and manage. The foggy feeling I have comes and goes. It seems to be related to stress and energy...It is not overwhelming like it used to be. I keep being reminded that the Dr's said, "This is a 2-3 year process" Its been 18 months.
Church- On the one hand it is really good. The people are amazing, encouraging and challenging. I could never imagine a better group of people. On the other hand, it is a real challenge. With the building on North Garnett coming along, we are knee deep in transition planning. ( kind of feels like quicksand) It is like going into a tunnel and seeing a bright light come right at you. ( Yup... that is a train!) This whole process has given new meaning to the "tunnel of chaos." But we have a good staff team and building team. I ask lots of questions and keep saying, "We need to be creative problem solvers." That is good advice, but I sometimes fall into the mode of "Let's sovle the problem" rather than, "Lets pray about this and see how God solves the problem."
Family- All are good. Pam has been going to lots of Volleyball, and I have been tagging along. I enjoy watching Abigial play, and she is really good! Joel is living here while looking for a job in his chosen career field. Lizzie and Nathaniel are gearing up for basketball, which means he is coaching 6 days a week. Lydia and James had a great launch at their church in Joliet Ill. She is doing pretty well.
What have I learned in the past 6 weeks? Good question. I have learned that I am predisposed to say "yes" to almost every request and I have to change. I have learned that what I think I am saying to people is not neccesarily what they always hear.( Especially true when people have requests or demands...) I have learned that with me looking better, people assume I am back to normal and I am not. As a matter of fact, there is a new normal, which I am not even sure about. I have learned that if I don't take the time to replenish my soul, my heart shrivels up. ( Nothing new there... but I need the reminder). I have learned that the future is bright in God's kingdom, but that I ought to enjoy it more, worry less, slow down even more than I am and work better, not neccesarily harder.
I am reading alot more. Good books on the shelf include, "The Big Idea" by Dave Ferguson, "The Truth War" by John McArthur, "The Simple Church" by Thom Rainier, and "Communicating for Change" by Andy Stanley.
Oh, I have noticed something else... I read too much "Church stuff". I am branching out into some fiction ( Pam brought home "Playing for Pizza" by Grisham), a biography or two and see if I can broaden my horizons.
I want to promise that it will not be 6 weeks between posts again...but I can't. My supsicion is that I will pick it up.
later
Charlie
Blogging takes time and brain power..neither of which I seem to have alot of. But today, I have a litte of both, so I am going to catch you up a bit.
Health- GOOD! The blood clots have cleared up and the tests seem to be encouraging. More scans in 8 weeks, and go from there. My energy level is up and down, which I am learning to accept and manage. The foggy feeling I have comes and goes. It seems to be related to stress and energy...It is not overwhelming like it used to be. I keep being reminded that the Dr's said, "This is a 2-3 year process" Its been 18 months.
Church- On the one hand it is really good. The people are amazing, encouraging and challenging. I could never imagine a better group of people. On the other hand, it is a real challenge. With the building on North Garnett coming along, we are knee deep in transition planning. ( kind of feels like quicksand) It is like going into a tunnel and seeing a bright light come right at you. ( Yup... that is a train!) This whole process has given new meaning to the "tunnel of chaos." But we have a good staff team and building team. I ask lots of questions and keep saying, "We need to be creative problem solvers." That is good advice, but I sometimes fall into the mode of "Let's sovle the problem" rather than, "Lets pray about this and see how God solves the problem."
Family- All are good. Pam has been going to lots of Volleyball, and I have been tagging along. I enjoy watching Abigial play, and she is really good! Joel is living here while looking for a job in his chosen career field. Lizzie and Nathaniel are gearing up for basketball, which means he is coaching 6 days a week. Lydia and James had a great launch at their church in Joliet Ill. She is doing pretty well.
What have I learned in the past 6 weeks? Good question. I have learned that I am predisposed to say "yes" to almost every request and I have to change. I have learned that what I think I am saying to people is not neccesarily what they always hear.( Especially true when people have requests or demands...) I have learned that with me looking better, people assume I am back to normal and I am not. As a matter of fact, there is a new normal, which I am not even sure about. I have learned that if I don't take the time to replenish my soul, my heart shrivels up. ( Nothing new there... but I need the reminder). I have learned that the future is bright in God's kingdom, but that I ought to enjoy it more, worry less, slow down even more than I am and work better, not neccesarily harder.
I am reading alot more. Good books on the shelf include, "The Big Idea" by Dave Ferguson, "The Truth War" by John McArthur, "The Simple Church" by Thom Rainier, and "Communicating for Change" by Andy Stanley.
Oh, I have noticed something else... I read too much "Church stuff". I am branching out into some fiction ( Pam brought home "Playing for Pizza" by Grisham), a biography or two and see if I can broaden my horizons.
I want to promise that it will not be 6 weeks between posts again...but I can't. My supsicion is that I will pick it up.
later
Charlie
Saturday, September 01, 2007
Its a winner
My Parents have had a tough year. Health issues seem to be pretty much on the march in their lives. Add to that some significant stress from other corners of their lives, and they can be quite stressed like days.
I am very proud of them. They are good people who want to do good by everyone. They love their family,and they love the people in their community, and church.
Dad loves to paint. The picture below is one that he finished last spring , before the worst of his eye sight failure. So this is one to be proud of.
It is picuture that my dad took while he was in the Army. He has had the photgraph for decades, and just now decided to tackle it.
It won First Place at the Lane County Fair...Which is a big deal
I hope you enjoy it.
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